burrito por favor!

So I've started to realize how cynical I really am when it comes to guys and their intentions. I met this guy...long story short: He came up to me while I was finishing up dinner with the Wilkie's and gave me his phone number, said to call him if interested. I was intrigued because he was really really cute (like WAY cuter than who normally would try to pick me up!)...and it's not every day I get a phone number while eating a burrito! We met for a really great first date the next night (probably one of the best first dates I've ever been on but that's a story for another post!), met up again Sunday before I left Fayetteville and have talked every day since then. He wants to come down here and see me again - it will have been 2 weeks since the original meeting. Now when I think about this dude and what he says...I like the idea behind it and he does actually seem to like me. But then, I get in my head and I'm so sure that it's all a lie and he's only trying to get somewhere with me so he can toss me aside and move on. How did I get so jaded?